you should tell him what you expect and then if he is willing to compromise hold him accountable

he’s not your only option and if he doesn’t respect your needs and wants you could do better. my SO LOVES video games’, is always exhausted from chronic fatigue; and ALWAYS makes time for me every day.

to cook dinner together! clean, read books to each other, gardening . just one or two activities together everyday low effort or high effort depending on on energy level.

his behavior is selfish and asking him to respect your wants and needs is your RIGHT in a relationship. if he doesn’t either hear you to listen and compromise or make real changes you should consider how valuable a present partner is and what you want from a relationship and what you are getting