Incels are women haters and I don't hate women

I don't think incel has an "official definition" any more than forever alone does. good job stereotyping a group of people based on the worst examples. I can only imagine how what you know of the Westboro Bapptist Church reflects on christians.

The only reason incel has come to mean "women hating" is more because of people like you that spread that, than it is some tiny group on reddit that most people have had no contact with.

I can go right over to femcels, nicegirls, or any female space on reddit and see much of the same behavior. Turn out angry bitter people post mean shit on the internet!

If you want to watch people rant about shitty behavior, we have plenty to go around!

What we don't have is access to the actions of those people. Good luck figuring out which ones are trolls, or drunk etc.