I think people lying about rape harms the legitimacy and impact of the word more than people using it in a sports context.
People understand what it is and how serious it is
I really doubt that people understand how serious killing others are given the split reactions to the following situations:
People are so use to hearing about killing in media that it has diminished effect, but when people hear about rape, there is a riot and everyone agrees what it is and how bad it is.
Out of the factors that make up "Rape culture" :
only 4 of them are critical or legitimate. Adding any of the crossed out items loosens the meaning of rape since they do not imply an acceptance of rape where rape is defined sexual penetration without consent.
If you define murder culture as loosely as rape culture, the US would have a significantly larger problem with "murder culture."