find a guy who you think is appealing, click thru the match percentage to see questions, and click on unacceptable (or i care about) & think about tinkering w some answers; repeat until match percentage is high w attractive dudes

clearly some updates necessary e.g. you answer that your highest lvl of education completed is high school but yr profile says verbatim

I'm a recent graduate with a B.S. in engineering.

so, update the ?s bc right now they look problematic to me in many ways (e.g. ppl w low IQs shouldn't reproduce?!) & i see a 56% match (which means you'd prob not show up in my okcing even if we were proximal)

rn your profile is basically generic statements loosely stitched together

i'd say, reduce every section to something super short... then go back and embellish in the future [in small bits] as needed

e.g. for self-summary you could just write:

• Phenomenal sense of humor

• Exceptionally kind

• Lives to be silly

...that's it; no more. & that's still telling not showing, which /r/okcupid critics seem to abhor. mb a reasonable criticism @ "phenomenal sense of humor" would be, legit nothing in this profile is even borderline funny. & you have 5 lols including 2 in one sentence ...?

The first things people usually notice about me

I honestly don't know the answer to this, maybe that i'm black lol, but once they move past that, i'm gonna go with the answer that every other person has on their profile and say my eyes lol

uhh lol

tl;dr go back thru ?s to tinker or answer more; make sections wayyyy shorter & to the point; pick better pics bc the current ones sell you short