A little off topic-ish. I’m a 29F married to a wonderful man. There’s a guy at work who I am in love with. He’s 31. Whatever. I’ve tried for two years to stop being in love with him. I’ve tried everything. I’ve tried shaming myself, telling myself how it’d never work out because (ten reasons), how I don’t really love him but it’s this other thing, I’ve tried denying it and admitting it, and I even went to therapy over it. It’s torture.

There’s no way I’d make a move, he has kids and a family. I need a clean rep at work. I have a husband!

What I’m saying is, if you love something, it’s hard not to love it. Maybe we can compare what I have and study that and apply it to pedos.

I’m still actively trying not to love him...