Think of the things you’ve done together that brought you emotionally together. Has that brought you two closer together? Would you choose sex over the bond you two have built? I was in the same boat as your girlfriend. Although my reason is mostly that I’m terrified of getting pregnant when I’m still in college and don’t have the time or money for pregnancy and taking care of a baby to raise, not much of the reason for religion. I know there’s protection, but I’ve had two generations of relatives become pregnant while using protection (condom and birth control pills). I know it’s true because my mother was conceived before my grandmother got married (did the math between my grandparents date of marriage and my mother’s date of birth). Same thing happened to my mom and dad but while they were dating and not married. However my mom