He (33) lied to me (20) about his age for years and is actually 44.

So did y’all ever celebrate his birthday? Thats when upholding the lie shoulda gotten awkward for him. And he didn’t introduce you to any of his friends or family? And he doesnt have a linkedin, or degrees on his wall (with graduation dates) at his home? If not, he went out of his way to be sure not to do all of that. Cuz theres a lot of ways to vet a persons age. A woman lied to me about being 31 recently, and I found out the very next day that she was actually 35 when we followed each other on ig, since she had a post celebrating her 30th back in 2017. Then I was able to cross reference that with the college graduation date on her linkedin.

This story is really unsettling. Men shouldnt be able to walk away scot free from something like this and leave this young lady’s life in shambles. There needs to be accountability

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