I've mostly done mine through email, switch to phone/text on day of meeting. Don't use your personal email. Get a burner phone. I've spent a considerable time researching pay as you go plans and I've come down to 'ring plus'. Check that out. If you have sprint coverage in your area, you can use their service n get 250 minutes free every month n also texting. No personal info or credit card required. Downside is when you are calling someone, instead of hearing the traditional tone, they play random music ads. They have promotions on and off so sometimes its gone. If you see it on their website, it called the truly free plan. I bought a sprint dumbphone at Walgreens for $15 on sale to use with this plan.

I would say never visit a provider without reviews. TER n eccie are most notable. Free version you can't view much details though. Those sites usually tell you the price n link to their personal Web page if any. Don't talk about sex or money on phone or in person, you will be viewed as popo. Dress casually. First few minutes in the door is typically intro/small talk but real business should shortly after that. Leave your donation on the counter, don't give it to her. Shower, brush, mouthwash n be clean before you meet the provider. You can typically shower when you get there but that would be on your time. They will most likely provide condoms. Practice safe sex.

If you are doing in call, u go to her. Some in the big cities will book close to transportation so you can take public transportation if you want. Other might book near airports so you might need to drive out to see them. Unless you are seeing a shady provider, they will probably not copy down your license plate. If you want out call, they will come to you. Unless you staying at hotel, you shouldn't do out call to your own place.