I don't have that illusion, however I know where I want to go and what I truly enjoy. I'm not worried about my girlfriend or I changing, because we've changed each other a lot already and we've been growing together in sync very well.

I had always been the loner in the group of bad kids who didn't care about their education. I then branched off looking to try and become a better person, so I went into isolationism in my current school of 50 people in a huge metropolitan city. It is a school for those who have self-determination and isn't a drop out school, not to worry. I plan to go to one of Canada's highest ranked post secondary institutes for engineering and possibly doing a dual degree in statistics or business if I feel it adds to my marketability enough. She was always home schooled and very quite, she has now came out of her shell and became very comfortable opening up to me as well as her mother. Her parents were a young couple and her mother has had some of these conversations with us in which we've told her we've discussed and chose to follow the path of abstinence. I also convinced my girlfriend to talk to her mother when she had very strong sexual desire, an it seems to have really helped her.

Her family has introduced me to Christ, she has given me a reason to better myself, and she has always been a positive and constant influence since we have dated. We've had large disagreements about same sex marriages, a often problem is she drops everything for this one friend usually leaving me behind, and whatever else can come up I forget however we never raised our voices or anything. We've always had a tendency to talk things out.