Divorced men of reddit, what moment with your future ex-wife made you think "Yup, I'm asking this girl for a divorce."?

This was my father and step-mother. I was staying with them during a rough time, my step-mom losing her mind slowly to smoking K2, decided to think I was stealing from her, even though I had a job and had no need to steal anything, and oh yeah, I'm not a thief. I found out she thought this through my sister as my dad had mentioned it to her. So I was the one who had to confront her and tell her basically I didn't steal anything, and I was raised better than that, whereas she said I'm just like her 3 kids that have all stolen from her. That night I got most my stuff and left to stay with an aunt. About a week later, my aunt comes home to the rest of my stuff (that my dad said I could keep in his office), was sitting outside her garage next to the trash can (including my priceless guitar that is the only thing I have from my deceased uncle, I can't even play it, but I'm never getting rid of it). I called my dad, fuming, and he was already getting tired of her for the past year+. A few days later she calls me and I let it go to voicemail and she is stating she will file a police report against me for stealing, to this day I have no idea what she thought I stole from her. She amazingly was the one who filed for divorce, I think my dad not taking her side with the stealing thing set her off. She had previously made remarks about how she was going to take my dads house, which he built himself and I was born and raised in. Fast forward to fathers day, my aunt and I have my dad over for dinner, and the next day we find out that when my dad went home, crazy step mom was there (after previously staying elsewhere), and when he tried to get her to leave she pulled a gun on him. My dad is too nice and called the sheriff but didn't have her arrested, just a restraining order that protects him and his family from her. Unfortunately as I write this now, the divorce hasn't happened, I think she may have sobered up and they are working on things, but I will never forgive her as last I heard, she feels I still owe her an apology, and she doesn't owe me on.

Sorry I had to share because this thread is countless stories of women that are crazy (I like to think I'm a sane one), the way women always try to play the victim and just lie, is enraging.

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