I have felt like my voice has gotten quieter and quieter. I think this is due to what I feel is a loss of intellectual attraction. I don't know when it for sure started but she has gotten more black and white with any opinion and if I try to ask about things or the source or where she heard that I normally get responses like:

"Not everything has to be a sourced, just because you went to college and I didn't doesn't mean I don't know anything"

Or "you aren't the person I remember, are you sure we should be married"

I think I need some time to really think and determine my values again and accept it's okay to be an independent and not make everyone happy with everything I think and do