It's funny that I saw this thread. I actually unsubbed from AskWomen a while ago because my opinion often differs drastically from the top voted answers in many threads. I come back and lurk occasionally, like today when I am bored.

But much like you, constantly having the exact opposite like or desire or preference than 90% of the top voted answers in the threads made me feel like I was a crappy woman.

No, I don't fantisize about being choked during sex. The thought makes me sick. I can't even begin to count how many times I saw this among the top rated comments in fantasy threads.

Yeah, I like big dick and I cannot lie. Call me a size queen, I don't care.

Yes, I think it's ridiculous to assume every single ring given as a 'just because' gift is a marriage proposal. (I actually got reamed here once because I said I didn't think a dainty ring with a tiny chain for a band looked like an engagement ring. Like seriously, who the fuck cares what I think of your engagement ring? If you're that insecure about a stranger's opinion of your partner's engagement gift to you, my opnion is the least of your concern.)

No, I don't like anal. It fucking hurt. It ruined my self confidence. I cried for weeks afterwards whenever I thought about it. I was young, naive, had ho idea what I was doing, it was long before the internet was as ubiquitous as it is now, and information consisted of going to a bookstore in the adult section or asking my prudish, equally young and naive and thoroughly judgemental friends who thought masturbating was gross. I consider it the worst consensual regret of my life and would rather get hit by a bus than try again, no matter who asks.

No, I don't think blowjobs are the greatest. I love my partner, so I give because I know he likes it, but they don't turn me on.

Yes, I love recieving oral even though I am not as enthuiastic about giving it.

I'm not a bad person. I'm just human.

Typing that felt good. :)