there have been several things i guess. when the pandemic started, he was able to stop working for a while so he became more of a homebody and once he got got his job back, something violent happened there so he immediately quit and it made him so anxious. he got a job in my state but quit because he hated the environment there and kept sleeping all day and wouldn’t show up to his shifts. he doesn’t desire to look for another job as he isn’t really reliable right now. he also failed a class he was taking because he couldn’t keep up with the work and now he is hesitant to pursue school anymore. his mom is always pressuring him to find a career as well which makes him feel lost and like he doesn’t have anything figured out. last year he also bought a car but the guy who sold it to him tricked him and the car was in worse condition than he thought so it cost a lot of money. he also quit watching porn last summer and he struggles with that daily. i think he’s at a stand still and is completely frozen under the pressure of failure. he’s had a rough year and things just keep getting worse. i want to be there for him but he’s really at a stand still and he has a hard time talking about it.