If you agree to getting erotically tied up, you should be understanding of the fact that this is part of your erotic game. A normal human being cannot understand, I assume, how a woman wants to get erotically tied up, but certainly has no sexual interest at the same time.

You people try to have it both ways at the same time. Get all the fun and most easily blame men any time for being "toxically masculine", I assume; in case you are not in the mood for your rape play (That's what it is that you are doing! What else do you think is the idea behind tying a woman up?).

And then you even think every single tiny event in your (sex) life needs to be sent to the world, to get more deluded opinion from similarly-minded crazies about how much of a victim you are. By a man who cares so much about your sexual satisfaction ...

May this man be safe from you soon.