“Nobody wanted ‘this kid’” yikes. This poor kid. Mom doesn’t spend time with him, dad wishes he was aborted.

I’m disgusted at you and your wife.

Before you start saying I don’t understand. Between me and my husband, we have a 26 yo, 17 yo, 15 yo, and almost 2 yo. We love spending time with each of our children but especially our toddler. In addition, we rarely, if ever, ask any of our older children to watch our toddler and in the rare event we do, we pay $18/hour because it’s a serious job.

This is your child to raise, not your older children’s. Idk how tired you are, you both need to realize your responsibility and step up.