Letting your husband lead you out of a depression is lovely. Building him up With support is good and only right.

This entire post is wonderful. So I’m sorry to pick at something minor here... I’ve never heard of letting your husband flirt with confident women as fluffy. That seems like doormat behaviour, no?

Being rp doesn’t mean doormat. Submissive yes, but you are allowed to have things you can’t tolerate, as quoted in the surrendered wife. If it’s going to break something inside you, then you don’t need to watch or acquiesce. You can simply say “I can’t”.

I cant watch that.

If he wants to flirt with other women, you have a right to tell him and if he continues, you have a right to go home without him because you can’t watch. I don’t subscribe to the idea of flirting with other men to get back at him, unless of course he encourages you to.