I see that I wasn't very clear and my post came off more negative than I intended it to. I do feel anxious not only because of my experience with my kids but even knowing how I feel as an adult at concerts, sporting events etc. I enjoy them but I have adhd and I think possibly hsp so I know it can get overwhelming and this concert has been hyped up to be bigger than ever!

my gut feeling is that it might not be great but then again she might love it. I certainly wasn't looking for a bunch of people to say it was a terrible idea so I could then go to her and tell her that I and a bunch of internet strangers think it's a terrible idea lol. but I do see how I was pretty negative and unclear about the intent of my post. basically since they are going I would like to think of anything that would help to make the experience enjoyable so they have fun and don't have to leave early.