r/unpopularopinion is an interesting version of reality. The more people disagree with you there, the more your opinion fits the sub.

For whatever it's worth I don't believe for a second that the problem is on your end. Faceless strangers on the internet are brutal, bull-headed, and rude, because their words have no consequences. You're only giving them what they want by arguing, and especially by letting them break you down.

I feel the same way myself when talking to people on here, I don't interpret reality the way others do, and my views and beliefs often contradict most other people's. That's the main reason I routinely delete all of my posts/comments. Try not to let it ruin your day. :)