Have you ever realized you were the toxic one in a relationship, and were you able to reconcile it? If so, how?

I don’t see you again very soon. It’s not like she met up with him for coffee. She met up with him in the dark, at the house where we lived, when I was out of town, with no witnesses, After him spending three years trying to fuck her and get her to cheat on me. She knew what she was doing. She was leading him on for attention in for revenge. I will never know what happened in that car. Sorry you think I’m such a shitty person, I’m really not. You don’t know all of the other aspects about what happened in that relationship, like her refusing to get a job, her being addicted to drugs, and her not working a day in her life and expecting everyone to just hand her money because she was beautiful. If you knew what it was like to wake up every day at 5 AM to go work home then come home at 9 PM and have a girl who slept until 2pm , Smoke pot, and take Instagram pictures all day and then claimed that she was too depressed to have sex, how would you feel? By imagine three years of that. Again, I said what I did was wrong and I own up to it. It doesn’t even compare to what she did. Not even close.

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