I finally fell in love again. I'm extremely excited but scared

Relax... I'm happy you're happy but I think you might freak this guy out exploding your feelings all over him at this point in the friendship. Have you two ever actually spoken over the phone or video? I suggest reigning in your emotions a bit then just give him a call? You say you live far away from each other, so perhaps try to find an art show or museum exhibit that would be mutually interesting to meet in person? Do some research BEFORE you ask him. Be gentle but firm in your request. Speaking from experience, us guys cannot easily recognize or decipher subtle hints from women. Conversely, if we're hit with an explosion of love from out of nowhere, we might shut the whole thing down and ghost. Have I been helpful in any way? I'm happy for you, good luck, and go land that fish!

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