Yes I’m absolutely trying not to internalise any of it! He’s very adamant he supports LGBTQ and actually works in the psychology field.. he says “shemale” is just a term and isn’t bad to use - again I’ve told him it’s very harmful to use. And has attitude like this. as I’ve mentioned before, I’m bi myself and my brother is also gay so.. to my boyfriends defence, he did grow up in a country where it’s illegal to be gay, so I don’t want to hold it against him too much, it likely stuff he doesn’t realise /ignorance rather than him not being supportive? Idk,

Also thank u for taking the time to talk to me, I really appreciate it <3