I'm sorry I offended you about my reference. I know many people, mostly family, who have it. No one was ever as violent as my sister. But it was said for a reason. It is a much different thing than an antisocial personality disorder and that would likely be the other disorder to cause such behavior.

She isn't hateful, she just loses her shit. She would cry and beg for an apology, she honestly felt terrible. That I ha e no dount. But it never changed, so I had to cut her off. Even when her apologies were sincere.

So just because the person is sincere doesn't mean it's a good idea.

I am very sorry. But you are obviously not her. And I wasn't trying to equate her to some monolithic type of person with it.