I'm 21, but I don't consider myself a beginner. Practice practice practice, talk to everyone man. Guys, girls, potential dates, girls on Tinder, all of it. The more you talk and the better you get at being quick on your feet, the easier you will be able to carry a conversation. I could talk for hours about shit. You also have to realize, that not every girl you will bang. Some just have personalities that don't match up with yours. That's cool, move on. An important one, is to have the "fuck it" mentality. An example; before a date with a very attractive girl, think to yourself "fuck it man, I'm going on the date, that's pretty good. If it doesn't escalate, who cares, I will find a new girl to chat up by next week." And as soon as you stop worrying about the outcome of sex, the better off you will be. Yes we can think of this as a game, but it's the kind of game where if you lose, you smile, look back on the dates that did go well, and move forward. Also, know that even the guys who have it seemingly together all the time, still mess up. Another example, from myself; my roommate (girl) had a friend over (very attractive blonde girl) she went out for the night but I stayed in, and she ended up back at my place eventually, without my roommate. My other friend had brought her home, and was trying to kiss her and stuff and she wasn't having it from him apparently. Anyways, she comes into my bed and goes on a rant about her recent ex or whatever, so I start thinking, okay... this chick doesn't want it, she just wants a cuddle buddy. Well, she hops on top of me jokingly, and then pulls me on top of her. What did I do? Fucking dick shit all. I still thought that if I went to kiss her she wouldn't be into it. Enough rambling, what am I trying to get across here? Always assume attraction, go in for the kill, if she says no, she will do it politely and then you carry on from there.

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