I think you're both slanting it to suit your narrative though.

What narrative am I trying to paint? He slapped a fan who did nothing wrong, and did all of that over a flash in his eye (the fan he slapped wasn't even the woman with the flash). Dude has some serious anger issues.

And the other situation was pretty harsh too, having his security knocking someone out (woman or man) and then leaving them cold on the ground like that. A punch like that could have killed the person. But uh yeah, he has violent tendencies and should really work on it because I don't think he will be so lucky in the next fist fight/physical altercation he gets himself in.