How are you all handling changing discourses in the field?

So I need help. My daughter is 14 going on 15. I’m currently searching for a therapist for her. I don’t know how to help her. She wants to go to school but when she gets to school she complains that her stomach hurts and she gets all kinds of panicky and runs to the nurse. She thinks there’s something wrong with her stomach, but I’ve taken her to her doctors and there’s nothing she can see wrong, she suggested therapy. I also made a GI appt for her. I believe she’s having stomach issues caused by anxiety. I say it’s in her head only because your mind is so powerful and has a way of making you sick, if you know what I mean. I’m also trying not to invalidate her feelings on this that’s why I have been making appts. But she doesn’t talk to me or tell me what she wants. I try to give her a choice rather then force her to do something that she may not be comfortable with so then it won’t help her. He says I’m overwhelming her but everyone’s trying to help but she’s not opening her mouth to let us know what she wants to try or anything that she thinks will help. I’ve asked about group therapy -silence- individual therapy -silence. Cyber school -silence- partial in person school - silence I get nothing. I’m so at a loss..

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