How attractive would you say you are?

If you look at me at the right angle, probably at least a 6. Same goes for if I'm wearing a mask that covers my nose and chin (though honestly I've come around to my nose. My chin and mouth aren't really it, though). I have nice eyes and in general a good upper face. Without those caveats, probably middle of the road overall.

There are definitely ways I could clean up and make myself more attractive: get a nice haircut, find clothes that actually fit properly, gain weight and muscle (I'm 6'2" and 135lbs), maybe grow a beard but idk if I'm into that for me, cuz some of my most masculine physical characteristics are the ones I dislike the most. Plus my youth is one of the things I've got going for me and a beard would probably age me up a little.

I'm a dude and I don't think many people would ever think of me as hot, but I could probably pull off being "cute"

People I've been close with (not very many people) have told me I have a great personality and/or that I'm interesting to talk to, and have assured me that if people would just get to know me they'd think the same. Unfortunately I'm terribly socially anxious and have a tough time making friends. Those aspects of my personality only come out once I'm already comfortable with someone and it's hard to get to that point.

So in terms of charisma and personality I'd say my attractiveness is pretty low. If I were a little more physically attractive I could pull off my reservedness as being mysterious.

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