A little late to the party, but I figured I'd weigh in anyway since I'm desi too.

I'm a 22 year old Indian guy who has absolutely no experience with dating

This is probably not what you want to hear, but there's no shame in hiring an escort if you're just trying to figure things out and you're nervous/insecure/shy. Worry about dating later, one problem at a time.

I don't drink, I don't use recreational drugs, and I don't have a ridiculous, wild past.

Are kids doing lines off of strippers tits at 12 or something? what past? you're 22, you've hardly had a present.

You ever hear of the saying 'youth is wasted on the young'?

Balance your time. Learn how to be social and have fun too.

So I guess you could say that I'm a boring, studious, unattractive nerd. Not someone girls want to be with at all.

You can fix boring. You can get in shape.

As an Indian dude, I see SO many Indian guys complain about their sex life but so few with 6 pack abs and confidence.

I'm desi, I'm in shape, in ok looking, im intelligent and not underemployed and I do quite ok IMO.

You might be right, there may be absolutely no point in you trying and you may genuinely be a lost cause. But you'll never know unless you try.

I get that the world can be a shitty unforgiving place. I also know things aren't always perfect or how you'd want them to be. One way or the other, the ride is temporary. Irrespective of what anyone says or does, it wont last forever and neither will you. Live your life bro, worrying won't solve a thing. Ignore shitty people and take meaningful action to improve your life. If that isn't enough, whatevs, you tried so no point beating yourself up over it. Worse shit has happened to better people.