Agreed. I waited about 4 months. When I found out, I found the woman’s name and Facebook profile. She’s about 20 years older than me and married, with kids. At the time I was working in law/investigative services, I used a work resource to find her address. A friend picked me up one night and we egged her house (immature I know), and then I went home and liked her profile photo from 5 years ago, so that she would know I was watching her, and so she would suspect it was me. Then I took my boyfriends fancy clothes and put them in the kitty litter box, and threw the other ones out the window on to the driveway. Then I put soap on his toothbrush. And then I got drunk on red wine, and once I’d finished the bottle I smashed the glass on to the floor and left the mess there, went to bed.

I should have just left.