And talking to more people will get you more comfortable, talking to people.

If you’re only talking to someone because you want something (in this a case a date), then chances are you’re going to fumble your words or end up looking desperate.

Whenever someone introverted asks how they can work on being more out going I say just talk to random strangers in the grocery store. If you see someone grabbing something and you’re curious about it, ask them! “Hey I’ve been thinking about trying that, would you recommend that particular flavor to start?”

Surface encounters that are over in mere seconds, help build confidence in speaking to people and improves small talk.