Hmm it’s about having more responsibilities and more stress . It would help him to grow n matured faster but if he can’t handle that role and bring it over to the relationship … that could be an issue .

I don’t encourage u to treat him like a baby , if he needs someone to listen to .. be around for that but don’t keep asking if he is stress .. can he manage ? Don’t be angry if he has to stay in … be supportive not controlling .. not naggy about the whole thing since u don’t know much abt Ns as a woman …he will know how to handle by himself … that’s how people grow from the situation … don’t worry about it … he will enjoy his role .I wish u well. He is lucky to have u .