Those relationship that has strict parents

a lot of people are suggesting biting the bullet and just tahan but i would like to give an alternative viewpoint.

if marriage is your end goal, you need to know that their family will be your in-laws, vice versa. if currently, your parents are meddling in your rs, imagine how much meddling will happen when yall eventually have kids. and i'm saying this as i've seen many older friends get very close to divorcing on the grounds of inlaws being shitty. incompatibility extends beyond the individual and into their families as well.

is it possible to bite the bullet and tahan until the meddlers die? yes. but i'm sure neither you nor ur SO is wishing death on either's parents.

hopefully with time, the strict parents will soften and come around to love you. but till then, you really need to prepare yourself for the extremely tough battle ahead. wishing both of you all the best.

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