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Thanks for sharing

Wow. You have been very active on line. Sounds like you do better than most.

I have been off and on for 6 years. I am mostly here but I have ignored profiles on spiritual singles, eharmony and match and POF

I get notifications all the time to check out who has been checking me out but I have not succumbed to paying to meet people yet.

I have not succumbed to zoosk yet either. I hear that that is the hook up spot to be though, lol

I have no idea how many messages or how many people I've corresponded with...because I am always deleting conversations that grow cold and trail off. I can't abide a huge in box...for email either.

I've been back this time for maybe a month. I've been on a handful of first dates, one second date...nice man, but not really feeling a zing for him the way that I want to feel about somebody.

Over the last 6 years, I have had two relationships spring forth from online dating. Each about a year to a year and a half.

I am still friendly with them both...although the last one, that ended 3 years ago, was the hardest breakup of my life and I have not lived since then...

He was the person who was separated and not ready to date that I alluded to in my profile when I said I don't date recently separated men.

The break up was hardest because k do remain friends with ex's typically...and he was pretty emotionally immature...I say this because he thought nothing odd about sharing his sexual exploits with me after our breakup...that was hurtful and made me not want to talk to him for quite a while.

But we did get back in touch eventually and just the Khmer day we texted. He lives in Boston...I am glad not to run into him...the grief is still too near to want to be reminded, even though I'd not date him again if I had a do over.