How would you describe the person that took your virginity?

Well, this account is never going to be used again.

She had a hard life. Her mother molested her as a child. Kept her in diapers until she was six because her mom was lazy about potty training. Had many brothers and sisters from 10-30 years old. Believed in astrology as a religion. Thought her cat was a past version of her that she needed to take care of. Started smoking cigarettes at 12. Did acid at 15. Drank a shit ton. Did every drug under the sun (except heroin) from 16-19. Said she'd been shot at before, stabbed, beaten up. Ran away from home once and road on a boxcar (I think that's when she got shot at.) She also really liked wine, sex with sketchy people she hadn't known too long, hitting, and going on about how her ex ruined her life, but she won't delete him on Facebook so that she can gloat to him about her life when she "makes it." Said that she didn't need to see a therapist for any of her mental problems (mainly because she couldn't afford it.)

We were friends because she seemed normal when we would hang out. She took my virginity one night after we both got very drunk, and a conversation led to me explaining how I feel no physical attraction to anyone. I was a kissless Virgin at the time (21). Was really depressed from going through all of school, college and now working alongside people twice my age without even knowing what a peck on the cheek felt like. Ended up getting a two hour crash course in foreplay and sex that night. Turns out I am asexual.

Back to the question though. I'd describe her as someone who's heart is in the right place, but can be destructive, volatile and has mental scars that need serious attention.

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