Here’s the thing I feel like separating the two, I think dressing up acting like an infant/toddler and letting someone sexualize that is pedophilic and disgusting, and I don’t think there should be a platform anywhere for that kind of behavior. Here’s the thing I love being playful with my bf, we have a very playful relationship where I feel like I’m just as happy as I was when I was a child going to the park or something, I feel like he is a safe spot I can go to, to feel vulnerable, to feel safe and have fun, I feel like I have an inner “child”, maybe we all do, maybe it’s just our innocence, I enjoy feelings safe enough to let that side out, that doesn’t mean I lose all of myself that doesn’t mean I act like a child/dress like a child, I don’t have the rationale of a child I’m always an adult and will always act like an adult but I enjoy cute innocent things, I like drawing and showing him what I made, holding a teddy bear because I have anxiety, I like watching funny innocent cartoons like adventure time or flapjack because it brings me back to a time when life wasn’t so scary, I don’t think anything is wrong with that.