Why do I keep attracting all the wrong ones, is it me?

I'm gonna guess you're a man looking for a women. (Just from your vibes).

  1. First things first, these days everyone is into showing authenticity. Note that this doesn't necessarily mean being authentic. This is kind of a learned behavior. For example: if your father doesn't talk to you anymore, mention it as a talking point that could spur really deep conversation. Just like if getting dom-ed is your thing -- share it! Just not on the first date. Second date is fine.
  2. Younger people these days are actually anti masculine. This means if you act gay, you're gonna get girls. No joke. They like feeling in control of how they feel. Gay guys give it to them.
  3. Get your Ts checked. I did and found out I have high T w.r.t girls and a super low T w.r.t. guys. Jacked that up and now I'm a hypersexual fiend, never looking back. The dating world makes sense now. I was also gay a few years ago.
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