Part of why these dudes all rape underage girls is that they haze each other into doing so, as a way of gaining mutually assured destruction as a guarantee of cooperation. That's part of how old-boys networks work: if anyone breaks the bond, everyone immediately switches that person to their enemies list ... and thereby now starts believing that all those goofy boyish stunts that person pulled were in fact serious crimes in urgent need of public discussion.

How patriarchy works: If Jeff is your bro and he hits on your sixteen-year-old daughter, he's just playing around. But the minute Jeff stops being your bro, you can use it against him. (However in neither circumstance is the daughter's opinion relevant.)