LIVE: I'm (F26) ruining our first anniversary because I'm not romantic and I don't know what to do to fix it. I can see that he's (M24) heart broken, but I just want that this day ends.

I'm trying. I've talked to him a few times that I don't have very good memories about this day, but I don't think he understands how bad it was for me.

I think he's trying to make today special, that way I'll forget the bad part, but I don't know what to do. I asked if he wants to go out to eat, but it seems like it's too late. I think he was expecting that I would wake up all happy and jumpy and we would have a magical day.

But I woke up from a nightmare, I didn't sleep so well, so I wasn't in the best mood. Now I'm suggesting a few things for us to do and he said that he just wants to watch a movie. Maybe I'll make some popcorn to see if it helps.

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