I’m about to go meet her for the first time. Any last bit of advice?

Ok so we met by the beach because she stays close to there. We took a walk. I initiated contact by picking her up and also making her sit on my lap. We were intimately close. Anyways she reveals that she has a bf (well as long as I’m keeping my man happy). I change the topic because he’s not in the city. I try to physically escalate but she stop me twice (hand up dress). She also claims to hate giving blowjobs and tells me I’ll never find out how tight her vagina on some ‘too bad you’ll never know’. (please don’t ask for context but it was relevant).

She then said it was cold and asked to end the session. When we walked back I lingered and noticed she didn’t try to come closer and didn’t wait for me. She would occasionally check for me but made no effort to close the distance. The distance kept growing until she was 50-100m away (I kid you not). It was night and dark and I decided to just slip away and lose her.

After losing her I kept walking on the beach and received a message from her saying she didn’t want to catch a cold waiting for me. I called her and told her I was surprised that she didn’t block me. She asked why she would and I explained about I noticed she was not receptive to my advances. She said I was a bit too forward and that she was only expecting an intimate cuddling buddy and series buddy (I fucking kid you not. Women where I’m from are this messed up/stupid).She said I should have asked for clarification. So I asked her which situation it was

  1. She’s open to something but felt I had been too forward

  2. She’s not olen to anything.

She implied that it’s more of 1 but confessed that her current bf cheated on her twice and she’s still have much in love with him even though she knows that logically he will cheat again. Long story short I told her she can message me when she’s done healing or sorted herself out and hopefully for her I’ll still be around. I missed out a lot of stuff but that’s the jist.

p.s. I don’t want a relationship with her. I’m not that stupid. I just want to fuck.

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