Dude come on. You need to hold her accountable for this colossal fuck up. When you talk to her she will say it was a mistake and she did it to protect you, but in reality it was to protect and secure herself (by not jeopardizing her relationship with you). She is capable of any lie imaginable and will rationalize it in her mind with whatever logic she can grasp. Her love for you is bullshit, and she loves herself more than she loves you. Her decision was all about her and not about you. She could care less about you, she needs you for the stability. Wake tf up and see what’s happening!!!

My advice would be to call off the wedding and fuck the image and perception it gives off. You’re integrity and respect as a man will be no more if you continue the wedding and then deal with the issue after. Fuck her. She deserves to be in the spotlight for this. Your image will remain in tact as long as you remain confident in your decision. Be strong bro. Fuck this bitch. You don’t deserve this.