It makes me uncomfortable when my partner masturbates

If the sex is still happening with you, then you shouldn’t have to worry about it, I know easier said than done. My first thought is...do you masterbate? If not maybe you should begin and you might see from experience it doesn’t mean it’s taking something away from the time you two spend together. If you don’t really, forewarned of course it can feel idiotic at first, it takes awhile to not feel like a bit of an idiot from my own experience. But seriously might be the solution to your worries.

Also highly recommend, because my sex with partner suddenly got way better and then more frequent because I just wanted to do it more often. I got to figure out and find out things that felt really good for me through masterbation and then share them/utilize them with my partner. It’s almost like...finding out all the best angles or spots for yourself...then giving your partner the cheat codes.

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