Hey thank you for your comment.

Yeah I agree 100% with you, I never understood when people said marriage was the solution to things like mental health and depression but this was literally the last step that I could think of. The more I think about it, the more I realise that when I played an active role in his life he was a lot happier and had a lot more motivation. We would see each other more, spend all day together and things were fine. The fact that we don’t really see each other much anymore I think kind of makes him lose that motivation if that makes sense? Because of religion without being married I can’t exactly spend the day with him in his house loool so getting married was the only sort of solution I could think of.

I don’t know what else to suggest