My post is the logical conclusion of a lot of years of experience. And I have discussed that in great details with my wife who, after over 15y of marriage that was gradually turning sexless, suddenly became horny as fuck and would ask for sex nearly every day (as opposed to me taking the initiative every few weeks).

It is precisely all these years of little sex that turned me in an expert, because I pictured that if I would fully focus on my wife's pleasure she would be more into it. That expertise clearly paid off because most girls I met when I started cheating were complimenting me for how sweet and attentive I am.

I am not angling for pity, on the contrary. I just hope other people will regain their self respect, and understand that there is no reason for anyone to go through that just because society wants you to just suck it up if you're into a sexless marriage.