Men of Reddit, What is the the appropriate amount of body contact between friends of the opposite sex without making the other person feel uncomfortable?

Well thanks for the laugh anyways.

This may be the first time in the history of my visiting this website that someone judged me without knowing all the facts.

Then blamed me for not giving them all the facts.

Then judged me again based on made up facts.

Then blamed me a second time because, Hey.....I only said it once.

Okie dokie I guess if you only said it once that somehow makes it less of a thing you actually said.

Have a nice life.

Just so I don't leave you hanging. Vicariously: "I would touch him more." - understandable, because you didn't know the situation, but had you actually cared about the facts you might have asked WHY we were just friends. Perhaps most damning.

Yeah you asked that initially and i was explaining my side of it Sweety...you don't have a side. You aren't part of what's going on with me. You have an opinion based on your own life.

Controlling:

You need to take a step back, fucking take a breath, then come back to this.

I don't need to do anything love. You are not the boss of me. You can tell me what I need to do and what I should do and what is socially acceptable, but it doesn't change the fact that THAT is merely your opinion, that nobody needs to listen to it, and truly nobody needs to do anything.

I said it once? Well if it was only once......after I stated SEVERAL times he already knew...then I guess it's okay that you clearly weren't reading the words I typed out for you. That's why I harped on the reading comprehension. Literally in my VERY FIRST post where I castigated you for treating me like a piece of property.

PS, MY HUSBAND KNOWS I LIKE HIM AND DOESN'T GIVE A FUCK, so thanks for bringing all that shit up.

I'm not even going to address the fact that you insist you aren't treating me like a piece of property while calling me dumbass and ordering me around.

Have a nice life dude. It's gonna be a rough one for ya.

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