Who are you to say what's "the right way to live"?

I am not that person, and nobody is. But I fight for a world in which YOU get to choose how to live YOUR life. If you don't want to have sex before marriage, don't. If you don't even want to get married, don't. If you never want to have or ever watch porn, DON'T.

That's the beauty of rights of all, it is YOUR choice, your RIGHT to exercise (or not).

What I am opposed to is living in a world in which CONSERVATIVE social values are IMPOSED on everyone regardless of their personal preferences.

And what I am attacking is the hypocrisy.

Also, I did not downvote you (for whatever it is worth).

there's no absolute standard of right or wrong here.

Maybe, but in my worldview, it is absolutely always wrong to rape someone, to give just one example.