We're not talking overall satisfaction, but strictly preference. And in terms of selecting partners, numerous other factors come into play. How important that preference is, is solely dependent on the individual. What keeps being dismissed is the fact alot of men don't want to be settled for in that aspect.

Now, consider what a conversation about this topic would be like, in present day, if women had complete agency of their sexuality and the encouragement to seek those preferences, as long as men have. That women were equal to men since the beginning. And that women had full authority to sleep with whomever, based on those preferences. It's very possible that most men would, in fact, have what most women prefer in terms of size now. And that's the point: Most women prefer bigger than what most men have, and/or the majority of men have come to believe that.

Of course, that's all irrelevant, as no one will know for certain. What is relevant is figuring out ways for men deal with those feelings of sexually inadequacy. And usually, the best advice to give them is address the accompanying depression (it's usually a symptom), that there's physically nothing wrong with them, for them to acknowledge and understand their own worth, and for them to avoid/ignore women who they know prefer bigger than them. Like women are encouraged to not settle, or not be settled for, the same applied to men helps a great deal.

Invalidating how those men feel does nothing but cause more grief overall. And in some cases extreme hostility. Better those men simply ignore women, like the ones praising bigger than average in this thread.