My (19F) boyfriend (22M) was taking secret nudes and sending them to his friends group chat

Yea and “leave him, but call the cops” is actual good advice? Seriously, the cops are not going to invest any time into this, and anybody who disagrees has no practical sense. You want nudes removed? Get a lawyer, but let’s be real, do you think a 19 year old is going to spend hundreds if not thousands of dollars on a lawyer? Just so these guys can print them out, email them around, and hide them? There’s no practical way around this. Sure she can talk to her bf, but the damage is done, he did something irreversible, and no matter how many apologies he says, she’ll always remember this act and have trust issues with him.

The only way she can prevent him from doing further damage is to ENSURE he doesn’t, it’s called leverage. If she leaves him you think he’s going to delete everything and pretend nothing happened? Chances are he’s going to send them out, or use them as black mail. Idk about you but I wouldn’t fuck with somebody who has unflattering nudes of me

/r/relationship_advice Thread Parent