My [22/M] girlfriend [20/F] won't stop pestering me about school, jobs, etc.

No, it has no effect on my future. I have an associate's degree at the moment, which enables me to attend college for a multitude of programs. That's what I plan to do next year as I can't admit to a program until September. I assume you're from the USA? I'm not, so college and university are a lot different here. College is more hands on education, which is why I easily managed to obtain my degree with high grades. The university I attend specializes in science and research, and now that I'm there I realize it was a huge mistake because it's just not for me.

I'm sorry, I just feel like your post was a little aggressive so I oddly enough feel like I need to justify myself. It's just that I don't appreciate how my post led to so many assumptions about my future and how you fully expect my girlfriend to move on when we are in a very healthy relationship. I do understand why you say I'm half assing it, and yes I know it's not attractive, but I'm also working hard at saving up money, finding out my future and speaking to councillors and researching what business I'm going to start. My entire family is successful and a few of my brothers and sisters run their own very successful businesses. I'm very blessed to have family members like that whom I can ask for help.

But besides that, I was just irritated that my girlfriend would pester me like this consistently. I do know what I'm doing, and I will figure it out.

Also, when employers ask what I was doing for the year, I actually don't have to tell them I wasted it slacking.

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