Yes, he had helped me move a large dining set and a couch into my apartment in the past, and it was a struggle. After that, he said that he doesn't want to help me move any more furniture and that I should hire movers. I haven't told him that his choice makes me upset because I didn't know if it was fair of me to expect him to help more. I don't have much experience w/ relationships; what do you think I should consider?

How do you suggest that I should talk to him about the state of our relationship? I asked him a few weeks ago just out of curiosity how he feels about me, and he says that he loves me and that he's the happiest he's ever been in a relationship with me.

But then he got upset at me this weekend because we went out assuming that we were going to a get-together that turned into him hanging out with 2 of his guy friends at a field for 4 hours. I got upset because they were talking about dirtbike stuff for hourssss that I was unfamiliar with and didn't make any effort to include me.

I felt extremely left out and couldn't leave because he drove, and I felt like it was a waste of my weekend, which I told him. He said that I should've tried harder to engage with his friends, but they get very technical and I don't know anything about their interests... He told me that I sometimes go into situations with negative mindsets and that I should try harder to have fun and turn situations around in my favor. I agree that I could've tried harder to socialize, but the day was just such a bore and I really didn't have any interest in dirtbikes! He essentially said that I need to be more social and that my behavior may be a dealbreaker for him if it continues.

Sorry for the rant; I just don't know what to do. My mind is spinning and I feel like I'm getting mixed signals about this relationship. I need someone's outside perspective.