My (27F) boyfriend (27M) had an inappropriate relationship with a teen before we met

No facetime, no calls, nothing like that. I agree it sounds horrible but given all of my other experiences with him I don't think he has any kind of pull to this sort of thing. He's literally never talked about kids in that way or glorified TV shows about high schoolers or anything like that. I understand that a lot of people with that kind of pull do hide those sorts of thing but I actually even spoke with his therapist and she said she's never gotten any impression that he was drawn to young people. I think he's telling the truth.

That's a good point about the criminal charges actually. I showed this to him and he actually admitted having seen a lawyer at some point that didn't believe that he could be brought up on any charge with a suspended statute of limitations. Anything he would have been brought up on would have been contributing to the delinquency of a minor and that limitation has passed now.

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