It sounds like you are justifying the action. Her being nasty doesn't mean it's ok to pile on because it's happening anyway, and I don't understand going this hard to defend bad behavior. I'm one of the few Logan fans here (for other reasons) but this action of his was always despicable.

Lorelai would have done at at his age, but she was problematic at his age too... so? They were both brats and neither should be defended for their bratty actions, and she should still call it out and save the maid from Emily's tongue lashing and having companies bar her from being hired for theft (they would ALL refuse to employ her if one agency fired her for theft--- she would permanently be out of work as a maid and it could have been devastating for her). Anywhere she went for work would have called her previous employment to find out why she isn't there anymore, and Lorelai, who worked low wage jobs after she ran away, so today she may have more compassion for maids and other workers.